‘Do I need some pruning?’

By Colleen Chiacchere
Creighton University

 

Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit,

because without me you can do nothing.

If you remain in me and my words remain in you,

ask for whatever you want and it will be done for you.

By this is my Father glorified,

that you bear much fruit and become my disciples.

The familiar and poignant Gospel reading from John – one of the “I am” statements – highlights the importance of our connection and lifeline to Christ.

If we are disconnected, we wither and die like a dead branch. When we receive our energy from our divine source, we bear fruit and glorify our God.

These days, my youngest child, 18-month-old Diego, illustrates a clear example of this connection of the vine to the branches. His developmental stage represents this deep connection to his parents while having freedom to explore the world. Diego is independent, curious and adventurous as he spends his days exploring, learning and taking risks. He’s celebrating his new accomplishments, learning new skills and surviving the minor injuries that plague toddlerhood.

Diego practices how things work, like opening up cabinets, pouring water from one container to another and screwing and unscrewing lids on a jar. While focused on his task, he is careful about confirming (with a quick glance) to check that one of his parents is close by. He seeks companionship to energize his work. He also seeks assistance when a new task is too difficult or something new is frightening.

On his wobbly legs, he sometimes falls when he’s running or misjudges proximity and ends up bumping his head. Naturally, he seeks comfort, safety and empathy from one of us with a loving hug, a rub on his back and some consoling words.

As I imagine little 18-month Diego and his relationship with us, his parents, I am humbled and enlightened by how he represents some insight for me into my relationship with God. Perhaps some of these questions might be helpful for you, too!

How do I interact with Christ as my companion in navigating this world?

Are there similarities or connections between my spiritual life and the developmental phase of a toddler?

How do I rest or remain in God when I am celebrating, navigating or hurting?

How might I be called to bear fruit in the world where there is hurt, distrust and division?

On another note, with springtime here among us in the United States, it is hard to ignore the new life that surrounds us! There are also beautiful connections with the metaphors of vines, branches, withering and bearing fruit of this Gospel reading.  Maybe one of the questions might resonate more with our prayer today:

How are the fruits of my labor connected to my relationship with Christ?

Am I resisting some pruning that God is trying to do with me?

Where might I need to do some pruning in order to strengthen my relationship with Christ?

Let’s pray for each other, that we may be branches bearing fruit and glorifying God with our actions, particularly as we work toward healing our hurting world and welcoming our brothers and sisters.